Every day I think about the fact that the man who once promised to give me a home betrayed me! And his family, who said they would help me in times of trouble, but when something really happened to my family, they stood by coldly! That scumbag got together with a woman who had been chasing him for years, and they started talking about marriage before we even officially broke up! I felt like I was being treated like a monkey and it was especially hard to know the truth. Until now, I still think about the indifference of these people from time to time and it really hurts.
Every day I think back to those days when the man who promised to give me a home betrayed me. The same goes for his family, promising to lend a hand in my time of need, but standing by when things went south in my family. What infuriated me the most was that the scummy guy quickly got together with a woman who had been chasing him backwards for years, and they started talking about marriage before our relationship was even over! It made me feel completely cheated on and I was devastated to learn the truth. Now, I still occasionally think of these cold behaviors and get a blockage in my heart.
Hello, my dear! I'll start by giving you a warm hug from across the room. From your words, I can deeply feel your anger and disappointment. You believed so much in his promises and even planned a future with him, but he failed you like this, I can imagine how painful it was for you.
Parenthetically, I completely understand your hurt and anger. But as adults, let's face it: your relationship is over, so don't keep dwelling on how he hurt you or how much you used to trust him. Instead, try to reflect on why you trusted him so much. Why did he treat you that way? What did you do or not do during your time together that may have caused things to turn out the way they did? Of course, it's not all about you, he's responsible too, and the breakdown of any relationship is caused by both parties, wouldn't you say? You can't change him, but you can change yourself. By reflecting on it, you can learn from the experience and really grow. That way, all that pain wasn't in vain, right?
I'm Answer Tube Little Ears, Lily World and I love you.