I am 38 years old, married with children, recently because I see around the development of people of the same age, the heart is a little anxious, suddenly came up with the idea of graduate school. Reviewed about a week, always learning while doubting themselves ...... brain rambling, simply can not be quiet.
What should I do to adjust my mindset? Is it a stubborn idea to go to graduate school at an older age? Because I can't tell what the future will be like ...... I don't see any similar success stories around me, and even I don't know why I want to go to graduate school!
The only thing that's clear is that I'm not very happy with the way things are going.
Hello, I'm the counselor Wang Lu.
Having a goal to go after when you feel lost in life actually makes you feel more energized. I'm not sure if you're going to graduate school because you don't think you're good enough and want to find a direction, or because you want to improve your self-worth, or because you want to be financially better off, or for any other reason. After all, graduate school is not as simple as a late-night snack, you have to spend a lot of time and energy, the process will inevitably hesitate and waver.
I've always felt that age itself is not the key issue, it's really the hurdle in our hearts that we have to cross. Every day that we are alive, the things we try and achieve enrich life, we may fail or we may succeed unexpectedly, but the most important thing is to go through it, don't you think so?